Ch 3: A Surprised Proposal from Blue Eyes

Now that I had rejected Mr. KC and Mr. MK, I was debating if I should go back and check my messages from match.com suitors list down to the bottom. Though Mr. Suave still bugging me, I didn't take him seriously.(I said to myself: Do I really need to do this finding my Mr. Dream man of my life? Will this journey of chasing him (My Prince Charming) be worth my time?). I didn't want to meet some weird people anymore so I deleted my match.com account and enjoyed my single life going to the clubs with family and friends. It didn't bother me to have no boyfriend for a while.

The clubbing that I am talking about here is not those typical club that you would think! It is a Ballroom and Karaoke Clubbing.  We travelled sometimes to Downtown Vallejo, San Francisco, Daly City, San Bruno, Sacramento, Oakland and to wherever the karaoke events occurred. We didn't mind driving a couple hours or so just to have fun every weekend.

Somewhere along the way, I met Mr. Blue Eyes, who loves golf. Blue Eyes and I were dating for 6 months until we received a bad news that his mother from Florida broke her hip. Mr. Blue Eyes needed to be with his mom to  care for her but before he left California, MR. Blue Eyes proposed to me on Christmas day in 2003. (This was already almost 2 years since my divorce) I really wasn't expecting it at all.  I was so surprised! I was not really crazy about Mr. Blue Eyes but he was nice enough that I decided to say "YES" to his proposal but yet he had to leave me behind after the proposal due to he has some tending to do. (Oh gosh! "I hope I won't regret accepthing this proposal since I wasn't sure" I said to myself).

After couple weeks being engaged, Mr Blue Eyes came back to town but not for good. He came back to take me home to his hometown; Florida for good. I was bickering with Mr Blue Eyes that I did not want to go with him for so many reason. Number 1) I had a good life in California and loving every minute of it. Number 2) I love the people I mingled with and love the job that I had. Number 3) I was not ready to move back East. In fact, I hated it. Number 4) I had a very dark memories there with my abusive ex-husband and that was one of the biggest reason. And Finally, I didn't want to relive it at all.

Mr. Blue Eyes, incessantly begging me for the last two months to go home with him. He didn't stop until I finally gave-in. So I left my family behind and quit my job. Off I went to Florida with Mr Blue Eyes not knowing what's ahead of me. While half-way through on our way to Florida, I just had an intense mixed feelings that things are not going to be alright with me and Mr. Blue Eyes.

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