Ch 2: Picking the Right Suitor

The Fact that my first date (Mr. Suave, Puerto Rican) appeared to be so confident and just constantly praised me or given me some sort of compliments on the first date, that tells me right there and then that he was trying hard to impress me! Yes we have chatted for quite some time via yahoo messenger, emails and we spoke on the phone on several ocassions before we met in person but my golly! Guys, if you go for a first date, you need to be yourself, calm down and relax!  Don't try too hard to impress your first date. Worse yet you are going to make her nervous. 

Back to Mr. Suave! When the night ended, he had asked me if he could see me again. I nodded but the problem was Mr. Suave demanded that I should go and drive for 2 hours too see him the following week (Yes, you heard it right! Mr suave showed sign as a control freak at our first date). Since he drove from Daly City to North California to see me, it was acceptable that I should pay him back a visit plus I was always on his city's side every weekend for clubbing anyways. So it was not difficult.

Although Mr. Suave was charming, there was no question in my mind that he will be just a history.  I really did enjoy the hunting/dating part then after being divorced. As I told you before how much I was missing out for being married to Abusive Jack Ash! While my email were filed up with 100's  messages from different candidates from match.com, I have yet to reply and meet these guys to really find what I was looking for.

Though I agreed that I was going to continue seeing Mr Suave from  Daly City, I didn't stop seeing others. Let me tell you my suitor #2 KC, from Antioch, California. I was very intrigue at first about KC. He was very quiet and polite yet he seems to have a dark secrets(he was a stalker, he creeped me out!). Suitor #3, MK from Oakland. He's a Jewish, outgoing yet humble but still was hung up with his feelings from his ex-wife (Goodbye MK of Oakland!). To sum it all up, none of the three candidates were good enough for me. I went out with Mr. KC twice and I ended it right away as well as  with Mr. MK.


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